Wow, things have been going hectic this past several days, with the preparation of my parents going haji, so they're leaving the house for 1month, preps for the competence examination within two weeks, and of course, the orphanage project.
Been struggling with the topic the orphanage requested... I have soften the topic to : Reproductive System Health, then I'll try to slip some of the homosexuality and masturbation issue into it... hahaha here's some sneak peak!
Oh and when I said "struggling", I did mean it! Because as u know, masturbation or 'hand practice' or 'self service' is forbidden in Islamic law. So when they requested the topic "Effect of masturbation to health", I was pretty sure they wanted it to be negative, which is to discourage the students from doing the 'self service'. But frankly saying, I really didn't know what was the negative effect. I'd heard some myths about it, that masturbation can cause impotency in later life, but after all, they'd been proven wrong! The only real negative effect is that it can cause abrasion on penis' skin cause the hands got no lubricant the way the vagina does (OMG --") Sooo after long and winding search I finally got some as u can see above! The effect of chronic and addictive masturbation, ha ha ha! Planning on preparing some gifts for those who can answer my quiz after the presentation also... Wish me luck, everybody :)
I was honoured but confused when about three days backwards I got a text message from my aunty telling me that an orphanage near her house, funded by a well-known "ustadz" in Surabaya, was going to hold a health promoting program, and they asked if I can help presenting one or two topics about teenage health. The event is due next Friday (5/11/2010). The orphanage was one like a pesantren (islamic boarding school). And what made me confused and a little nervous is because when I asked what is the "trending topic" among the students in an islamic boarding school like that, my aunty answered, why don't you go with the sexual health, and the maleficence of gay/lesbians issue? I was like "What??" Seriously, are you kidding me? to present a topic like that among the santri (that's what they call the orphans who studied at the boarding school/pesantren) is rather taboo, I guess. But my aunty said it really is the problem nowadays, because the atmosphere and the lack of exposure to the opposite gender. So I guess I have to find a way to soften up the issue and discuss it from the medical view, phew! Got any idea? wish me luck, guys! Will update soon!
There was his birthday on 12/10/2010 And our 1st anniversary two days later ;)
And this purple roses he gave me yesterday really made my day :)
Oh and, those arguments and little quarrels been complaining about how you don't have time for me now I realize it's not because u are being busy it's because of me doing nothing at this time I really am sorry